Applied Happiness Coaching

Many times people who get into the Law of Attraction wonder, “Can I attract my ex back?” People want to know if the LOA be used to bring people into your life? Absolutely! The LOA can be instrumental to bringing people to you, and bringing you out of your circle and into completely different ones. A lot of stories are told about finding love in the most obscure places.”I was out with a couple of friends, and we decided to try out a different restaurant/bar/club etc. in an area we never travel to. The place wasn’t what I expected at all. I would NEVER HAVE KNOWN about it, if it weren’t for the off chance that we ventured that way. That’s where I met him/her. It was the strangest thing. We would never have been, if I hadn’t ventured out of my circle.” I know you’ve heard some variation of that story!The hardest thing about attracting someone back into your life, or just attracting someone into your life in general, is the receiving step. This reigns true with everything you use LOA for. Asking is a piece of cake. We all want things, people, love, prosperity – it’s not hard to request it. However, having the correct frequency to receive what you asked for is a ballgame that many find hard to make it through. Your very first obstacle is you. Read that again. It’s not attracting HIM or HER back to you; it’s attracting YOU to THEM.

The ability to get someone’s attention in all the right ways, is completely about YOUR vibration. People are always drawn to those that resonate certain frequencies. Charisma, positivity, confidence – these are all vibrations that draw people in. You have to emit the right frequency to manifest people. What’s my suggestion?

Step 1 – Ask yourself why you want this person in your life? If it’s the return of the ex, why do you want him or her? What is it that you want returned? If it’s simply a body to love, your reasons are wrong – you may get what you want, but it will crumble again…only worse. If you believe you have the right reasons and intentions, ask the universe for him or her.

Step 2 – Spend 68 seconds (see 17 second post) in pure thought of having this person. If and/or when your very first doubt or negative though pops in your head, write it down immediately. This is your first block. This is the start of all the attributes of you, you need to correct to attract people. Here’s an example.

“I love her. She’s beautiful. She makes me feel loved. I hope she’ll forgive me” – STOP “He made me feel safe” – STOP

What’s wrong here? Both statements are FEAR statements. Your fear will prevent your grand reception. Truly spend a few minutes really noticing your thought pattern. Then step back and determine if you want this person back because you LOVE yourself and him or her, and deserve LOVE, or do you want this person back because you FEAR not having that love? When you can completely LOVE yourself and wash the insecurities away, those 17 second intervals will be so effortless and powerful. 68 seconds later, you could get a phone call and exactly what you want!

Have you ever run into an ex and, although the breakup was warranted, or the relationship was terrible, he or she looks great? You never thought you would even consider taking this person back, but you start talking, and learn that he’s in a ‘good place’ or she’s really ‘got her life together’. They fixed their insecurities, and nothing is impossible for them anymore.

The moral of this story is that of self-reflection. When you attract, or think about attracting specific people into, or back into your life, make sure you know what motivates you to do so. Fear and Love are equal in strength, but polar opposites. Both can drive one to madness! Madly in love, or just plain mad – which do you prefer? When your heart and your head are in the right place, and you know exactly who you are, you’ll discover that you deserve love from another because you love yourself. Suddenly you can feel the weight lifted, and the vibrations start resonating around you. You’re well on your way.

Have a spectacular Thursday, my friends!